Diana Neamtu

As we live in this world where comparison and competition are promoted so much, it’s not an unusual think to feel judged. You can be the one judging yourself or you can feel that others judge you. You know what I am talking about, right? 

I was recently listening to one of my favourites speakers, Gabrielle Bernstein. I found so much inspiration in her speeches and I would love to share some with you, hoping it will help and inspire you too. If you feel life it, help me spread the love and share this post with one or more people that you think these pieces of wisdom will serve them. Let’s dive in:

The big idea was: get rid of the habit of judging others with this simple mantra: I recognise he/ she is me. 

When we find ourselves in the place where we judge others we create separation. This is a tool that our ego manages. The ego creates separation and gets us into the comparison field where we think we are better than others and not as good as someone else. We forget that we are made of the same magical ingredients, we are all one and each of us has a bright, unique light inside and that we truly ARE love.

Tip: when you surprise yourself in the place where you judge others or compare yourself with others, simply use this mantra: I recognise he/ she is me.

Gabrielle Bernstein is #1 New York Times best selling Author and has some amazing books that helped me a lot. Some of them are translated in Romanian, some not yet, but here they are:

  1. Add more -ing to your life
  2. Spirit junkie 
  3. Miracles now
  4. May cause miracles
  5. The universe has your back
  6. Judgement detox

You can find them by clicking here, except for the “Judgement detox” one, which was released this year and I guess it did not arrive in Romania yet, but you can find it on Amazon 😃

If you don’t know where to start, I would totally recommend you to go with the “May cause miracles” book, as it is a 42 days program (6 weeks) of self work and awakening the love within. It really may cause miracles and I am telling you this from my own experience. I keep doing this program over and over again and it helps me a lot to stay grounded and to stay true to myself. 

Hope this article serves you, and if you have any questions don’t hesitate to address them in the comments below, I will be more than happy to answer all of your questions ♥

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Sending you love,


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